The Ultimate Wedding Planning Checklist

The Ultimate Wedding Planning Checklist

Planning a wedding is an exciting journey, but it can also feel overwhelming with so many details to manage. To help you stay organized and stress-free, here’s the ultimate wedding planning checklist. Follow this step-by-step guide to ensure your big day is everything you’ve dreamed of!

12+ Months Before the Wedding

  • Set Your Budget: Determine how much you can afford to spend and who will be contributing.
  • Create a Guest List: Start drafting a list of guests to estimate the venue size needed.
  • Choose Your Wedding Date: Pick a date that works for you and key guests.
  • Select a Wedding Style & Theme: Decide on a theme that reflects your personality and style.
  • Book a Venue: Reserve your ceremony and reception locations.
  • Hire a Wedding Planner (Optional): If you need help managing details, now is the time to hire one.
  • Start Researching Vendors: Photographers, caterers, florists, and entertainment.

9-12 Months Before the Wedding

  • Choose Your Wedding Party: Select bridesmaids, groomsmen, and other attendants.
  • Shop for Wedding Attire: Begin looking for wedding dresses, tuxedos, or suits.
  • Book Major Vendors: Secure a photographer, videographer, caterer, band/DJ, and officiant.
  • Plan Engagement Photos: Schedule and take engagement pictures.
  • Start a Wedding Website: Share key details with guests.
  • Send Save-the-Dates: Let guests know your wedding date.

6-9 Months Before the Wedding

  • Order Wedding Dress: Allow time for fittings and alterations.
  • Plan the Honeymoon: Book flights and accommodations.
  • Hire Additional Vendors: Florist, baker, hair/makeup artist, and transportation.
  • Create a Gift Registry: Select gifts for guests to choose from.
  • Plan Wedding Decor: Finalize decorations, centerpieces, and rentals.
  • Send Invitations for Destination Weddings: If having a destination wedding, guests need extra notice.

4-6 Months Before the Wedding

  • Choose Wedding Party Attire: Pick dresses, suits, and accessories.
  • Schedule Cake Tasting & Order Cake
  • Plan Wedding Menu: Work with caterers to finalize food selections.
  • Book Rehearsal Dinner Venue
  • Arrange Guest Accommodations: Block hotel rooms if needed.
  • Finalize Wedding Timeline

2-4 Months Before the Wedding

  • Send Wedding Invitations
  • Schedule Dress Fittings
  • Plan Seating Chart
  • Write Wedding Vows
  • Obtain Marriage License
  • Confirm Vendor Details

1 Month Before the Wedding

  • Final Dress Fitting
  • Confirm RSVPs
  • Create Wedding Day Timeline
  • Break in Wedding Shoes
  • Delegate Tasks to bridal party

1 Week Before the Wedding

  • Pack for Honeymoon
  • Finalize Seating Chart
  • Confirm Vendor Arrivals
  • Attend Final Beauty Appointments

Wedding Day!

  • Relax and Enjoy
  • Stick to the Timeline
  • Soak in Every Moment

By following this checklist, you’ll stay on top of wedding planning and create an unforgettable celebration! Stay tuned for more wedding planning blogs.

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